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After we’ve lost our person, deciding what to do with their possessions is a complicated process. We can feel like there are memories and emotions attached to the things they leave behind, and we [...]

After our person is gone and we’ve started to pick up the pieces of what is left, it’s not uncommon for you to find yourself asking the question “Who am I now?” I know I did. I still remember [...]

Grieving your spouse is an unthinkable experience, but when you also have children, the situation can easily become overwhelming. We think the stakes are higher because there are these other [...]

It’s easy to feel weighed down with all of the things we tell ourselves we have to do: clean the house. Take care of the kids. Lose weight. Start dating again. Clear out our husband’s [...]

Have you ever found yourself negotiating with the people around you and the events that occur in your life? I know I used to do this. When somebody has something unhelpful to say, it’s easy to [...]

The anniversary of my husband’s death has been on my mind a lot lately, because it came and went on August 1st. Instead of calling it an anniversary, I refer to it as a deathiversary [...]

I’ve learned so much since my husband died: about myself and what I’m capable of; about my children and how resilient they are; and about life and how to live it. Things have, of [...]