What Makes You Unlovable?
A few days ago, I overheard a woman say to her friend, “He’s been gone 6 years and I’m still single. What’s wrong with me? Why am I so unlovable?”
My heart went out to her.
Have you ever felt unlovable?
Maybe if you could just lose weight, smile more, be a little wittier, dress a little better, make more money, you’d be more lovable?
At some point I think most of us have questioned our lovability.
If you are one of those people, please pay attention to me.
You are 100% lovable.
There is nothing you have to say, do, be or have to validate your lovability.
It is your birthright.
You are a child of (insert your term for Divinity here).
You are literally made of love.
You can’t diminish your lovability even if you try. I don’t care if you are serving a prison sentence right now, your lovability is fully intact.
If someone doesn’t love you it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their ability to love.
Are you following me?
Stop making other people’s inability to love mean something about you. It doesn’t.
Decide to see yourself as the perfectly lovable human being you are.